Best Rainy Day Ever!

"Only boys who save their pennies
Make my rainy day..."  Madonna, Material Girl

Yesterday was my first date with Mr. S. I was off to a rough start and running late. I overslept, it was rainy and icky so I had no clue what to wear and there was traffic. Luckily I knew what to buy, I ran to a dept store and bought a drape vest with sleeves and then stopped at my fav boutique to buy a neclace and earrings to add color to my dark and casual outfit. He called and said he was stuck in traffic, which was fantastic. I had to refresh my makeup and take a few mins to get the jitters out. Mr S took alot longer than I expected (45 mins!) but I understood, he does business and lives almost an hr from me, and went window shopping downtown. I got a few looks from some guys so I felt really confident in my outfit selection. Shame I bought this really expensive cocktail dress last week and haven't had a chance to use it yet! But a lunch date is way more comfortable and I felt pretty safe. This one place sold old Super Nintendo games I was soo excited I had to buy a couple, then quickly shove them in my purse so Mr. S won't think I'm a geek.

He gets there before I do and texts me "Blue shirt at the window table." Oh gosh I sure hope he's decent looking (he only had his pic up on the site for a brief moment.) The place I chose is an upscale place I'd only been once before on a real date. Not many guys I date can afford this place, even for lunch. He sees me and smiles. Nice blue eyes, my first thought, then I see a lil pudginess but not enough to persuade me otherwise. He wears a baseball cap and a polo, I can tell he's a laid-back kinda guy. I'm overly smiley, it was like I couldn't control myself, I don't think I've ever been this nervous. I'm usually confident in every situation and charm everyone but I was like "how the fuck am I gonna pull this one off?!" He's drinking a beer, so I take that as my okay to have a drink, hell I'd take anything to calm down right now! He seemed just as nervous as me.

We start chit chatting and the part that makes me the most nervous is when he asks what I do, "Oh so you're a student?" he asks curiously. "Well actually I'm trying to go to school, I missed the deadline on my financial aid," (true story) I reply, embarrassed. He seemed okay with it, no school no job, but trying is better than nothing right? He's in the car business and that's pretty much all I'll say about that. The only thing that really worried me was that we hadn't discussed all the terms of the arrangement before like I had with the others (but they didn't work so maybe this is a good sign?) S wants someone to be there for him, listen to him talk and vent to, listen to him play the piano, relax in the hot tub with, and go out to eat with. He loves food. He lightly addresses the subject of intimacy. I blush as he says, he's a guy and yeah he wants it. He's willing to wait, I tell him I'm a lady, and he says that's fine - whew! He tells me about his kid and I tell him I have a son. This is what I thought could break it. To my surprise, he didn't mind at all! Actually, I think it made him want to help me even more! As we eat and talk, I can tell he likes me, I've got this in the bag now. This is where it gets good. He asks what bills I have and what's my goal for this allowance. S says he wants me to use it wisely, as he really wants someone to help that's in need (yes please donate to The Foundation of Broke-Ass Sugar Baby). I tell him next semester I want to be in school so I'll need to pay for tuition, he says oh we'll take care of that, what else? I need a car. I tell him I have some money saved. He says, no we'll get you a little BMW to drive around til I get my credit straight and then he'll get me one permenantly. SAY WHAT?!?! Hells yeah! I tell him I want to pay off my student loans and my credit card. Then he asks if $3k is a good amount, monthly, plus shopping and outings. Of course, I giggle, I feel all warm inside. That's really all I need, and I'm not greedy. Our bill is almost $200, he pays with $300. The waitress is like uh okay, and I'm sure she knows what's going on here (could it be he stopped talking everytime she walk over?) She comes back with the change and is all like "Um so all we had was 5's I'm so sorry!" He gives her a hefty tip and then orders a gift card for $100, hands it to me and tells me to take my girls and tell them about the wonderful time I had with him :) :) :)

We walk to his car, so he can "give me an incentive," as I tell him I haven't totally made up my mind yet. His BMW is parked right in front of my old ugly POS! I'm sooo mortified, please ignore my car! I get inside, and omg is his car nice, but of course. He asks what bills I have right now, I tell him about my overall expenses again and he's like "No I mean right now." I say well there's the student loans, $200 is placed in my hands, and he asks how many I say 2, another $200, then I tell him the etc, he keeps giving me hundred as I blush and he throws in all those goddamn 5's because he doesn't want them in his pocket lol All in all, it was almost $700!! Honestly, I think I was blushing because I was getting wet just looking at the cash, I was seriously  turned on thinking how I can finally pay off my bills, get my credit straight, and buy what I want. Is that bad? I've never been super materialistic or high maintenance, but I do love money, who doesn't? He wants to see me tomorrow because during the week he's so busy we might only meet once a week. I say yes and I'm so nervous. He asks for a kiss and he deserves it. No tongue, very innocent. He has small lips (mine are fuller, but not big) and his teeth are eh...which is sad, all those millions and bad teeth hmph. But really none of that really matters and as I drive off, all I can see is green on this rainy day :)